You
see your pain as removable. The power you feel you have to
remove the pain is really the power of creation. You create
what you call pain.
However, what you call pain is not really what you are
calling it. Pain is a disguise for your power.
The real process is not removal of the pain but the
removal of the disguise. You define pain. What you call
pain is really joyfulness. As you expand your definition,
your experience of what you call pain will be felt in a new
way.
As for seeing your husband's daughter-in-law as needing
protection from things outside of her that can harm her, we
always see a reflection of the state of our consciousness:
what we see is what we believe. As long as you see your
husband's daughter-in-law as fearful of things outside of
her, you are seeing your own belief.
You have the opportunity to step up higher and see your
husband's daughter-in-law as the God Presence that she truly
is. That means that you are seeing yourself in the same
way.
This will make more sense to you as you expand your
awareness of your true self. I suggest that you continue
reading answers to questions on the website, finish reading
YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL, and then read THE JOURNEY.
Feel free to ask questions as you proceed.