The
term "preference" is a transitional term. We used it to
help ease people toward accepting everything as perfect.
The way you phrased your question indicates you already know
the answer.
The Principle we are dealing with is nonjudgment. We are
all naturally unconditionally loving. We create judgments
to hide our enormous power, the power of our God Presence,
so we can remain in the human and play the game of
limitation and powerlessness. There comes a time when we
are ready to awaken to who we really are and reclaim the
power we have intentionally hidden.
As the God Presence, we know that all that we see is the
God Presence. Negativity is made up. It does not really
exist except in our imagination. When you notice
negativity, you know you have found a place you hid some
power. Those people you call "negative" provide you with
the opportunity to reclaim the power you have hidden. You
are ready to unwrap the disguise you call negativity and
call what you are feeling by its real name -- the power of
unconditional love.
We cannot become something we are not. We are all the
God Presence. We cannot really be angry, hateful, mean and
uncaring. But, we can use the unlimited power of the God
Presence to create the illusion that we are.
There comes a time when we are ready to open to the
truth. Since you are asking this question, you are ready
for the answer. You are being guided by your Infinite
Intelligence. You can trust where that Intelligence leads
you. Feel the joy of being so guided. Feel grateful for
that guidance.
We are all loved unconditionally by the Universe and all
in It at all times. Our role is to express that
unconditional love to all with whom we interact.
Expressing that love is not only fulfilling, it is great
fun. Enjoy!