Question:

I am actually feeling out of sorts these days as I come to terms with releasing my connection to my family of origin so that I can come to see them from a healthier perspective for me. Peeling the layers .....

 

Answer:

You can't release your connection with your family of origin since they are not separate from you. They are you. And, the same way you see them is how you see yourself. In the many ways you are uncomfortable with them, you are really uncomfortable with yourself.

Until you are willing to go into the energy of these feelings and claim them as your power, that power will seem to you to be outside of you. And, the reasons you have for trying to separate yourself from them will continue to haunt you.